Dear Anna, My wife and I have been together for nine years. She started a new job that’s far more demanding of her time, and we have two kids who also keep us busy. It seems like we just don’t see each other very often anymore, and when we do, we’re tired, cranky or dealing with house maintenance crap. We love each other so much but I can see the fire draining out of our relationship. How do we get that fire back? I don’t only mean sex, though that’s a part of it. We haven’t had a date night in months either. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks. — For Intimacy, Rethinking Everything Dear FIRE, W…